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I’m not female so maybe not qualified to answer fully, but what I personally like about it compared to MOST (not all) male writers :

• Larger overall focus on psychological aspects and growth of characters
• Insights and narratives presented purely from the SW’s point of view (sooo interesting)
• Slower pace overall, richer build-up to get to the spicy parts (bigger payoff!)
• More space and easier for me to insert as the male/giant in stories, sometimes eerily so(!)

My take is that usually the male gaze is focused on our (male) needs without delving too much into the consequences of such actions. I guess partly because some male authors would then share at least some level of guilt or shame at their character’s actions, or also perhaps because they don’t actually care and see the SW as a sex object/tool (which is okay sometimes, not judging).

But again I want to reiterate not all male authors are like that.

@littlest-lily What… me, moi, having “ulterior motives”? Never!

Thank you so much.

It’s so interesting that you bring up Freud because that was actually one of my fears when I first thought about going to therapy. I’ve studied him when I was younger and I was worried that his ideas were still being used. I’m much more a fan of Carl Jung, but that’s another story.

Here in Canada, at least in Quebec, CBT is by far the most used method. My therapist main area of expertise is with PTSD for Canadian Armed Forces personnel, where CBT has shown to be greatly effective.

@tiny-ivy said in Depression and Size Kink:

If you’re finding that this kink is too troubling, you can put it down and walk away for as long as you want. It will still be here for you if you ever want to pick it up again, after a period of time of you focusing on your mental health.

That’s the thing… I’ve already tried to put it down in the past, and the truth is that I simply can’t. It’s not a switch I can turn off, it’s a huge part of my sexuality wheter I want it or not. I thought that I could live without it and it only led to even more frustration and isolation. I realize not everyone with the fetish has this level of intensity, but that’s just my own experience.

@littlest-lily said in Language barrier:

He hardly knows any French and now she wishes she’d paid closer attention to her English classes lol.

Oh you know I love this idea!

If i could run away with it, I would set this in Canada as it would be relevant to our own IRL language issues that have been ongoing between French and English for generations here.

It could bring an interesting personal layer to a situation where they not only have to work out some way over the language barrier, but also overcome their own prejudices towards one another’s cultures.

@BigCuddlyGiant While it’s still impressive tech, I feel Luma was way overhyped (they cherry picked the videos in their demo).

What I would like is to be able to give keyframes and let the AI interpolate the render in between (yes, I’m thinking of a shrinking sequence, of course )

I did more tests here but I don’t think the tech is quite ready yet.
https://x.com/for3v3rlurk/status/1801273897406361897/video/1

@miss-lillipants I am beyond hyped for this series!

I love that they’re still going for a serious tone overall, in spite of this being labeled as a comedy. Lots of information in the article, like Lindy seems to be a very successful woman, a Pulitzer Prize winner no less. Her reaction to being shrunk seems to be mostly anger which is always fun to me Oh and they are going to be using lots of oversized props and practical effects!

Can’t wait to see the trailer, which should be out in the next few weeks…

That’s a very good question.

I’m mostly into gentle stuff, but overall the nature of their initial relationship is less important to me than the way they adapt to their size difference. Of course starting as pure strangers/blank slate is easier, and can lead through all the stages of friendship and beyond. But a married couple dynamic could be interesting, ie. shrinking her as a way to spice up their sex life after years of marriage, etc. They both have to live through the ups and downs, struggles of G/t love with all the bittersweet moments that can happen.

@skysayl Stop, you are literally reading my mind. Everything you wrote, everything, that’s what I want. Triggers my saviour fetish, even if I have to be the cause and solution to her size “problems”, hehe. Must protecc her tiny, fragile existence.

@ChiisanaKurisu Chii! Hello down there! waves

Make yourself at home in the Dollhouse, I can show you around, hop in!

Some more playing around with perspective and making the AI understand the concept of size difference… not that easy sometimes, but rewarding when it does.

@littlest-lily said in Reddit-style advice post (size edition):

@foreverlurk You are too good at creating a hateable character that we’ve all seen online. I beseech you, sir, please get into writing

20+ years of observing trolls on Reddit (and in the size community) sure helped!

Writing - uh, mayyybe? Hopefully the years haven given me more ideas than just my “Me want tiny woman. Me shrink woman. Ooga booga!” of my teens.

@miss-lillipants said in Reddit-style advice post (size edition):

It’s no Reddit post without some pitiable troll weighing in with pointless, muddled response, haha

That’s exactly what I thought, you guys were all being so wholesome and I was thinking “wait that’s not the Reddit I know!”

@blehb said in What are your favorite types of relationships to see in size content?:

Then they actually do it, and while she’s a lot less into it than she thought she would be, the guy discovers he really likes it.

Go on…

Seriously that’s really hot - I can imagine her getting way too overwhelmed by the experience, while he never thought she’d be so desirable at that size. She wants out, wants him to bring her back to normal but he’s so entranced he’s like “No, I don’t think I will”.

@Olo Even if I’m not into M/m myself, I’m always sad to see pillars of the community leaving, even if in that case it sounds like a very good reason. I hope someone will take over and continue running the website.

Hello, time for some new gens from the past week. I’m working on getting better expressions on characters, also better perspective and lighting. Just sharing some here in case you don’t follow my DA.

First I want to share a fanart I did based on an early chapter from @littlest-lily 's amazing “Rain” series. I’m reading through and I already know I want to do more scenes, some will be quite a challenge but it’s really rewarding once a prompt gives you what had in mind.

This one I liked very much, but of course since it’s M/f I once again got a lot of hate. Some guy went ballistic in the comments and my DMs, I tried to explain what projection/self-insertion was. Don’t know why I wasted my time. Thankfully, the tiny cavalry came in to support me ( including @SmolChlo thanks!!!)

Here I was going for a much smaller size while keeping the details and the proper sense of scale.

This may be the one I’m most proud of…

More on DA, of course. Thanks for watching!

There is now an IMDB page up for the series.

The description is

A technological accident serves as a catalyst for Lindy and Les, a married couple, to re-evaluate their relationship’s power dynamics, leading to a dramatic showdown as they vie for control in their marriage.

@blehb said in Do you have any size kinks or interests that you feel are unusual?:

Rope bondage is lovely even outside of size though. I definitely wouldn’t complain about seeing the two mesh more!

At least in my mind it is. I’ve watched tutorials and er, “demonstrations” and it does require some skills. You must also know how to quickly cut the ropes if your partner wants out, without hurting her. It’s that bond of trust that resonates with me, akin to the “you’re so tiny I could hurt you if I’m not careful but you trust me still” of SW that makes me melt.

If you find that hentai let me know!

@blehb said in Do you have any size kinks or interests that you feel are unusual?:

As for micro, it’s a rarity in SW for sure!

From my own anecdotal observations, it’s not that rare for women, but it’s rarer for us giant to truly appreciate that size range. It’s a shame because I think it allows so much freedom in shrinking scenarios.

For me, it opens up a different side than the usual gentle and caring giant. The terror and sheer domination it allows, more range to “play” with her size, slightly oblivious and playful, having her beg and think “okay I’m small enough now I’m sure he won’t shrink me again!”, just for me to go “Guess again, bug!” Zaaaaap. I love it sm

@skysayl said in Do you have any size kinks or interests that you feel are unusual?:

Get a male friend to preread and draw attention to this specific aspect.

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I’m probably biased, I think in general men are less complicated than women when it comes to arousal, or simply more straightforward? In the context of the size kink, I do have some very specific interactions with SW I’ve not seen describe that often, though, that don’t require direct access to my dick. Again, I’m biased because of my size-rotted brain, but I think some SW underestimate how some simple interactions can make us drool with desire.