Posts made by foreverlurk

@Olo said in Meanwhile on Reddit:

• 5’9" and fine

5’8" and (mostly) fine.

That’s one thing I hate about dating apps. I mean, I understand that we all have our preferences, and I’d be a hypocrite to deny I like short(er) girls (or redheads… ), but I wouldn’t reject a girl simply because she’s a brunette or my taller than me. But for some people it’s a non-negociable criteria. I guess tall dudes aren’t as used to being rejected based on their height, so it’s a new experience for them, thus the knee-jerk reactions in that girl’s post.

Seriously I don’t think it’s conscious but just like beauty, height is still an advantage and privilege in spite of our modern societies. Height has always been correlated to average salary, and beautiful people can get away with uglier behavior than most.

@Olo reminds me of this post I saw a few days ago. Gotta love the reactions of tall guys when for once they don’t fit the criterias of online dating apps.

@Olo I don’t think I consciously chase content by women, especially since it was even rarer when I first started looking for sizey stuff, but I definitely connect more to the way they construct a story in general - the slower build ups, the focus on character’s emotional and psychological states, and the overall SW’s point of view - which is rarer for male authors who sometimes skip that to go straight to the spicy parts.

Again, there’s no right or wrong way to go about this, just my personal preferences.

Huge fan of this series!

@Olo said in Dating Beyond The Ordinary:

I’m not sure the artist realized how popular the series would be. She still hasn’t presented a clear chronology.

“She”? Uh, strange, I thought they were male for some reason. Not that it changes anything!

@Olo Well you’ve done it Olo - from now on I’m reading all your comments with your voice in my head lol

Seriously those themes are so far away from my comfort zone. Still found it interesting.

Damn, this hits so hard. I think I’d need an emotional support tiny in my life right about now…

@SmolChlo Ah, I’ve learned recently that some people were really into noses, like reallllly. Nasophilia.

Having a size kink made me impervious to judging almost all other fetishes (a few exceptions where cruelty, violence, and illegal stuff is involved), this one is harmless but just goes to show how strange and diverse human sexuality is.

@Giant-Man-1984 Thanks for sharing the clip! That scene took me by surprise, Marvel has let me down so many times I’d rather expect nothing but holy crap that one did not disappoint.

@Olo Awww yes I saw that one yesterday! She’s so cute I wanna pick her up soo bad…

Joyeux Noël tout le monde!

@Olo "You oversized MORON ! "

@Olo said in Desperation:

@foreverlurk “I could just eat you up.”

“I wish I could put you in my pocket.” (I use that one so often!)

@littlest-lily said in Desperation:

(he did not figure it out)

We think we’re so obvious somehow. size panic activated. Normies don’t perceive this stuff as we do.

Having been with a very short girl, the topic of her height came up often. I never brought it up but I could never get enough of hearing her talk exasperatedly about how short she was, and meanwhile I was like "um, yes, do go on, dear" while trying to keep my cool. Pathetic, I know lol.

@SmolChlo haha don’t give up, I’m sure he’ll get it eventually!

My problem has always been searching for signs when in reality there were none. Good ol’ “I reject your reality and substitute my own” at work!

@SmolChlo said in Desperation:

oh trust me… I can get much smaller

Holy f- that comment would have sent me over the edge. Did he start drooling after lol?

Either way, I hope it works out for ya!

@Olo oh believe me I know, I worked on systems that would make Orwell blush. Thankfully I’m not at that company anymore but the amount of data we had access to, that people gave willingly, was downright scary.

TikTok probably knows more about (some parts of) me than most of my friends.

@SmolChlo are you talking about those the “why are short girls so mean” ones?

Unrelated, but this one popped up in my fyp (TT has the scariest, most accurate algorithm of all social media)