@blehb said
It’s a line I want to cross but I can’t bring myself to do it.
Same. I suck at this so much. I don’t want to wallow up in self-pity again, but me being a dom cishet male in my 40s brings a whole lot of bonus difficulty to opening up (perceived or real), that some in the “it’s-no-big-deal” crowd might not have to account for.
Or maybe that’s just my excuse ¯_ (ツ)_/¯
I mean, folks don’t tend to post their L’s online, but I’ve had some private conversations with people who “came out” to their partners about their size kink and things went horribly wrong. You don’t really hear about those, but it’s always a possibility.
(Chlo I’m sure you’ll be fine, please don’t mind me)