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@littlest-lily
…Both, actually.

I not looking for a specific thing, per say, I’m looking for a bunch of realistic examples I can use as a base to work with. More than that, I know enough to guess that using porn as a, ‘this is totally how people actually think’ logic is… kinda dumb, especially since I know a lot of porn is made to appeal to men, so I want to ask actual women who actually like this, because while I want what I write to appeal to myself, a man, it doesn’t mean I don’t care if they’re realistic, either.

Example being, the story I’m ruminating on has a man accidental shrink his girlfriend, there’s some big looming that happens at first (BIG looming, she’s micro), he saves her from a thing, unshrinks her… only partially at first, and kind plays with her for awhile, before completely unshrinking her.

Next day, she wants to go again. And from my perspective, I find that hot, I get why he’d like that, etc, but why does she like that? Does she like him having so much power? Does she like losing power? (which, low key, I knew was a thing but until the confirmation in this thread I was doubting myself on.) Is it the gimmick in the story that makes her so interested?

Because the point is she’s just as into it as he is, and I don’t want to project my desires.

@foreverlurk

Intellectually, I think I get it, it’s just… well. I’m a white guy in the US who is trying to actively pay attention to things; at this point I’ve spent a significant portion of my life actively questioning my desires, the morality of them, and what women actually like, and so on; I’ve spent a lot of time struggling with the puritain style programing in almost all media I consume.

Like. Shit is stressful these days, and a lot of people want to be taken away from having to be concerned about things. A vacation from their lives… like if they’re kept in a well provided hamster cage.

Power is hot. That is a universal thing. Competency and the like, women in well pressed suits or whatever, all follow from that. The thing is I’ve realized is that there seems to be two kinds of it: ‘I want that power, because that is hot’, or ‘I want to fuck that power, because it’s hot’. Where you fall in that spectrum, and in what situations, comes down to your specific desires, I think ( I think a woman who can take charge and run a corporation or group or what not with an iron fist is pretty hot, but I want to be the one who steps on a city, I don’t want anyone else to. I want actual physical power over others, but I don’t desire control over others as much, and perfectly happy being told what to do, within reason, and especially if it’s a hot women doing it. There’s all sorts of flavors to this.)

Like, hell. A couple of days ago I was talking to someone on discord and after I said I always wanted to be the giant monster, she said she wanted to be with the giant monster. Monster fucking, honestly, is basically a step below wanting to be fucked by a giant in a lot of ways, because it features that same kind of power disparity, that you can dominate someone so completely without any props or advantages needed.

So, I know there are women who like this, in all sorts of ways, but there’s so many messages telling me otherwise I thought it would be nice to get it reinforced by actual women that, yes, they actually do like this shit, you know? Beyond that, awhile ago I posted my story on the SW section of GTS world (before I lost my account there, like, three different times, so I think my name on that site is literally ‘i’ now, which is one of the main reasons I never updated there), but someone commented that it felt weird that the SW did a thing, fucked and dominated the smaller SWs, while in my head that made perfect sense because she was trying to feel, even for a moment, like she was in control, and being able to push them around and toy with them made her feel strong. But like. Does that actually make sense??? The doubt really kicks in sometimes.

Side note, but I’m pretty sure Stockholm syndrome was disproved, because the robbers were relatively normal people, and the police were such assholes the people ‘afflicted’ just didn’t want to help them.

@TakoAlice8

Huh. That’s the second time someone’s linked shrinking with safety. I’m not sure what to think of that, but there’s definitely something there. And you want to explore things while small? Interesting.

@Olo
I’d think it’d be more the other way around, if anything: a lot of size stories I see with giants of any kind have them take them being big and better as a natural state of affairs; that the overwhelming arrogance and confidence seems to make it better.

…Huh. I’m not exactly looking for these arguments, for obvious reasons, but when I do see it the logic isn’t, ‘A woman doing this is corrupting someone because her body is EEEEVILLLL’ or whatever, it’s ‘a woman exposing herself like this is degrading herself and/or is doing this for/because of men’.

Like, I don’t doubt there’s people who say that, but it’s just not a tact I’m used to seeing.

For the record, the idea that women’s bodies have to be covered and hidden is stupid, and following through that logic means that men are horny animals with no control and something should be done about that since clearly there’s no self control possible. Which… is also stupid, but strangely enough I’ve never seen that argument come up.

@blehb
I mean, I get that much: feet are the lowest part of the body, the dirtiest. Stepping on something is a symbol of humiliation and conquest.

It’s just something that seems very common, more than that could explain.

@Olo
I mean, it’s very noticeable that shrinking men is default called good; it’s the same format in a lot of GTS stories, only put on a chart. The fundamental logic behind it is that shrinking men is good, and that denying men to be shrunk is fundamentally bad. If it was presented differently, I’d call it loaded language, but I’m not sure if that actually applies in this specific context.

Regardless, out of spite for both this chart, the overwhelming net dominance of GTS in general, and just because I like SW, I want to make a chart completely around SW only.

Put away everything scaled for her, put her on the floor, and leave her there. Promptly ignore her.

Leave her trapped on the floor, unable to use anything, at best struggling to climb onto some high up surface, all while having to avoid me as I walk around. Don’t leave any food or water out, and wait until she begs for them… and then depending on how annoyed I am, ignore her, and keep her waiting as the reality of her sheer helplessness is rubbed into her face again and again.

Wait until she has entirely debased herself before I bring her back into my good graces, and she thanks me tearfully for literal crumbs.

Dehumanize her.

“Oh, are you too weak to lift up your own dress? Pathetic.”

"You can’t even reach the doorknob? You really are pitiful. Here, let me do that for you, surely you can take care of it from there, right?

What’s that? You still can’t do it? You can’t get down?"

“You can’t cook, you can’t clean, you can’t even open a door. What can you do? Anything? Can you even be considered a person when you’re that helpless?”

Ao3 has a, well, vibrant fetish community, from what I’ve seen. The tagging system I think is how the justification of that works, but you can also hide bookmarks on a ‘public’ account if you’re there for more normal stories.

I know there are shrink stories, I’ve bookmarked quite a few (and a ASMR from a script from littleestlily, who is here), but SW still isn’t that common a story there, either.