Looking for source of this GIF
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I always wondered where that gif came from too and was so happy to see the full video. It’s everything I want in a wholesome sizey relationship, I love it so much!!
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“Fiz minha casa no teu cangote”
Forgot to post the link, here it is:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TWHWQISWGwI think the next date that asks me “what’s your idea of a perfect date?”, I’ll just send her this GIF and see how she reacts, lol.
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Mm mm watta video. All I can focus on is how good he probably smells like you know that shirt is thickly saturated with his scent. I’d be rolling around all over that
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@foreverlurk thank you for sharing and thank you OP for starting this. My new fav music video!! So sweet! And the couple are both so cute. Now I just gotta find a translation for the lyrics to see if the g/t themes are present there, too.
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Glad you all liked it, I would have been happy with just that little GIF part but nope, it’s a full video with G/t scenes. Can’t help but wonder if someone on the team making this has the kink!
@tiny-ivy said in Looking for source of this GIF:
Now I just gotta find a translation for the lyrics to see if the g/t themes
Putting my French and Spanish knowledge I can almost get what she’s saying (had to look up “cangote”, though)
(Latin languages, assemble!)
“Fiz minha casa no teu cangote” (PT-BR)
“Hacer mi casa en tu cuello” (ES-ES)
“J’ai fait ma maison sur ton cou” (FR-CA)"I made my house on your neck" (EN-US)
AFAIK it’s the only size-related lyrics in the song.
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@nephilim said in Looking for source of this GIF:
LOLOL. YOU MUST TELL US HOW THAT GOES
hehe I will, honestly it’s so wholesome even normies could like it. Mind you, I’m still navigating the idiosyncrasies of online dating after being 15+ years in a stable relationship… but yeah, hopefully this time around I won’t stay in the ‘size closet’ forever.
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@foreverlurk I’ve actually shared this music video with certain girls before (without telling them that this was a “fantasy” of mine) and had them “awwwww” over it. Of course, this was AFTER I had planted ideas in their heads about being kept in my shirt pocket, so it wasn’t completely out of nowhere, and there was a preexisting context for the scenario.
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@protect-tinies Right, I wouldn’t just randomly share that without context. It’s just that in the past I’ve sent soooo many subtle (sometimes not-so-subtle) hints that went unnoticed, so I thought I’d try a more direct approach next time.
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@foreverlurk Yeah, my “hints” were anything but subtle…that’s why they were successful.
The only part that was subtle was the “kink” part. I started by offering to shrink these girls and take them away from all their problems and obligations and keep them in my shirt pocket. Of course, it was said in a cute, romantic way, not in a “I’m a weirdo who has a deep dark secret” kind of way. Then I ran with that scenario, shared the music video and said “Look! Someone made a documentary about your life!”, etc. Generally speaking, this stuff is not going to be weird unless you MAKE it weird. Haha. -
@protect-tinies said in Looking for source of this GIF:
I started by offering to shrink these girls and take them away from all their problems and obligations and keep them in my shirt pocket.
grabs notebook and start taking notes…
As subtle as a sledgehammer, lol. That was online, or in meatspace? Either way that’s very straightforward, no? I’m not sure I could even joke about shrinking her without making it awkward.
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@protect-tinies Holy crap I have no idea how I would have reacted if a guy flirted with me that way fkanancjjskas
That’s when the plan backfires because she really is one of us and gets too embarrassed
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@foreverlurk I did this through texting. I think it would be harder for me to do it in person without coming across as weird, haha.
I’m a stereotypical introvert, and I’m better at writing than I am at speaking…I play to my strengths. I think the trick is to really lean into the playful and whimsical side of the fantasy. You make it intentionally silly and over the top (but also maintaining the sweet and romantic part of it). Women in general LOVE to feel protected and taken care of, and this scenario is a good way to create those feelings. (They don’t care if it’s only a silly fantasy…that’s why they read romance novels…the fantasy may not be real, but the emotions are).They also LOVE confidence in a man…so what you say doesn’t matter nearly as much as how you say it. If you say something confidently, as long as they find you attractive, they’ll accept almost anything. (If they don’t find you attractive, you’re very unlikely to change that by saying the right things to them, so it’s usually best to move on to someone else who DOES find you attractive.) If you’re willing to say things to a woman that are a bit risky (if you’re willing to risk sounding silly or slightly weird), that actually communicates confidence, which is attractive. It means you’re not putting her on a pedestal and aren’t totally freaked out by the possibility of scaring her off. Also attractive.
@littlest-lily Fortunately, there are very few of “us” out there, so the risk of intimidating her into embarrassed silence through sizey flirting is negligible!
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@protect-tinies really appreciate taking the time to share your “Guide to SW” hehe. I figured this was done through online chat - unless you have balls of steel or confidence galore, I don’t know how we could NOT make it sound weird otherwise. Thanks for helping my autistic, Xennial ass make sense of all this!
@littlest-lily the probabilities are miniscule so I’m not counting on it, but wouldn’t that be… ridiculously awesome?!
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@foreverlurk I remember when I told my now-husband, in the back of my mind I was wondering “okay, what’s worse… He’s not into it at all? Or he has a size kink too but also wants to be the small one?”
Thankfully it all worked out. And I will say, as much as the odds are insanely slim to have perfect compatibility on that front, from everyone in my IRL circle that I’ve told about this, the general consensus has been “it’s really not that weird.” So yeah, I’m sure many women wouldn’t mind the idea of it, in a lighthearted sense. (I want to be careful about generalizing of course though)
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