I totally get where you’re coming from! In fact, the NSFW stuff doesn’t really work for me on it’s own. Like I can definitely enjoy the content, but a good narrative is REALLY what I look for. Doesn’t matter if it’s gentle or cruel, I want that plot and development. Kind of a complicated kink I suppose.
If we were to classify things differently, maybe instead of different boards we can add additional tags that clarify the “type” of story it is? Like Romance vs Erotica vs Smut? Gives people an idea of how steamy the content is.