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@xformbob said in Personality in Fantasy vs IRL:

This topic is a little old, but the board seems quiet like folks have moved on to other place and I figure I might as well see who is still listening.

A community needs a certain critical mass of people to be active; people responding to people sparking responses and so on. Our community is so small and have to be quiet about or interests so we have trouble keeping forums active in the way another fetish does, but people will keep tabs as long as it remains around.

Dehumanize her.

“Oh, are you too weak to lift up your own dress? Pathetic.”

"You can’t even reach the doorknob? You really are pitiful. Here, let me do that for you, surely you can take care of it from there, right?

What’s that? You still can’t do it? You can’t get down?"

“You can’t cook, you can’t clean, you can’t even open a door. What can you do? Anything? Can you even be considered a person when you’re that helpless?”

Welcome! Always good to get new life in these places.

@Calypsa
Honestly, a lot of what I’m interested in is usually a subversion of the classic SW tropes: she shrinks, but she’s into it before the man is, or actively did it to herself. I’m growing, but she’s doing to me, or is the one who is excited about it.

I like… the push pull, where both sides have some levers on the other, even if it’s just on emotional manipulation or something, making both ends of the equation active, if unequal, actors. If it’s just the basic ‘bigger person grabs smaller one, sex’, it’s… bland, almost? The situation, the relationship, that dynamic, flavors it.

In the same way, I’m interested in levels of dehumanization, but it can go too far, because it’s the fact that they are people that make it so interesting. If you reduce the woman to just an object, so much of what makes everything special is gone; it’s like you’ve replaced a gem with a Christmas light.

Ah, another for the ‘Ace but weirdly and deeply into a really kinky fetish you probably can’t ever explain to anyone normal camp’. Welcome!

Yeah, I’m not quite the exact same as you, I like all the girly bits, and dicks are… ugh. Not interested, but good/tolerable in limited quantities? How they’re used to present the women?

I’ve never really had any interest in sex, but I feel like, in some way, I grew out of even my fetish-y interest in sex? The power dynamics and relationships and so on interest me, and the sex is general just kind of folded in there (not even getting into the 'are women even into this??? that gets in my head at times).

Regardless, these days I’m more interested in cuddling and actually sleeping together, though I figure at least part of that is the all consuming exhaustion thing.

@The-Big-G

It depends on the species. Hippos will kill you just to watch you die.

Ironically, predators have to measure out how they fight more, since if they get injured they can’t catch their food. Not having to hunt down their meals means that stronger herbivores have a lot more freedom to be violent on demand.

I’ve said before, but I like humiliation, I like to make women beg. I want them cower before me, and be too afraid to even say my name, even as the desperately scramble to please me.

That said, in RL I just like it when people are happy, and all I really want to do cuddle, and just have some physical contact. I have the energy of one of those giant herbivores that just does not give a single solitary shit because there’s not it has to give a shit about, so the people can touch it and be relatively safe ever as the carnivores don’t dare to test it. And honestly? A lot of the stuff to assert authority and all that just sounds… kind of annoying to do?

Put away everything scaled for her, put her on the floor, and leave her there. Promptly ignore her.

Leave her trapped on the floor, unable to use anything, at best struggling to climb onto some high up surface, all while having to avoid me as I walk around. Don’t leave any food or water out, and wait until she begs for them… and then depending on how annoyed I am, ignore her, and keep her waiting as the reality of her sheer helplessness is rubbed into her face again and again.

Wait until she has entirely debased herself before I bring her back into my good graces, and she thanks me tearfully for literal crumbs.

@TakoAlice8
Weirdly ace yet fetish-y crowd unite!

More seriously, I get the overly empathetic bit- whenever I try to come with ideas I like from stories I like, a lot of general story concepts I like have the big be… well. Kind of a dick? All of the bullying and threatening and killing and stuff.

And I like that, except I don’t want to do that to someone. Or, honestly, even watch that done to someone… even though I do? I only really want it in the fictional concept, but the second I try to picture me writing something like that there’s too much of me in the giant to do it.

Inside me there’s two giants fighting over how to deal with fetish material and the conflict is leaving my ability to make a story in shambles.

In anything close to realistic, I go gentle. I’m just… kind of unbearably soft, even if I still want to dominate and such. If it was an ownership scenario, I’d set up my pets in the best way possible, that I could still disassemble to allow access with little effort on my part, so really elaborate doll houses with a roof I can take off in a snap- and maybe without doors.

Kink-wise is more based on my mood, really, but I like begging. I like it a lot more than I probably should. I like fear and cowering. I like destroying things, not because I want to, per say, but everything around me is so pathetic it can’t exist near me, all those things that are kind of the inevitable conclusion of actually being a giant, to the point city/state/country policy revolves around me.

Vore is hot, but such a loss of product I probably wouldn’t do it even when I was cruel because, well, then I wouldn’t have the woman I just ate! Vore play, and threatening with it, with a bit of ‘will I or won’t I’ that even I’m not 100% sure about hits the spot.

Open? Not at all.

Even ignoring that fetishes are fetishes, and so people don’t want to talk about them… this one just isn’t one that will be received well, I think, these days.

Obviously there’s people who are into it, and there’s probably quite a few people who would be OK with it, but culturally all of this isn’t going looked at kindly.

Broadly, I’m really tired of F/m being the dominant size concept. Really tired. There has to be more of us but by god does no one want to admit it, I guess.

More specifically, every time I try to dip my toes into F/m, it always seem to objectify the man, especially if it’s a broad shrinking thing. The women, meanwhile, are just casually living their lives.

Full honesty here, I know it’s a personal thing on my part because I love it when these things are applied to women, but well. I don’t want it to apply to me. Beyond that, probably because of how my brain is wired, small, powerless, objectified, whatever- that’s hot. Vulnerability is hot. But men aren’t hot, not to me, so every time I see it part of my brain just disengages from the attraction of the concept, even if the big woman herself is hot, because it’s trying to apply a sexy concept to something unsexy, like trying to be attracted to a rock.

shrug

I know my kinks. I’m not terribly proud of them, but I know them. And beyond in a broad ‘the woman in this picture is really sexy’ kind of way, F/m is never going to be one of them.

We need more giga/tera giants. There’s micro SW, but really, really, really big guys make it hard to do anything but smash things.

@blehb
I mean, I get that much: feet are the lowest part of the body, the dirtiest. Stepping on something is a symbol of humiliation and conquest.

It’s just something that seems very common, more than that could explain.

Yeah… lately, especially, I’ve noticed that just. A lot of size content is focused on feet. And not even in a expected, ‘the feet are the closest part to the tiny’ way, but interactions with feet as a focus.

What is everyone’s thoughts on this?