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For giants? (Read, me?). The way I see it, there’s two options: one, I have access to actual clothes my size, for whatever reason, and in which case… casual. Like. Really casual. No socks, no shoes, since my feet are really tough, just soft things that are easy to put on, with lots of pockets, since I’m a bit of a horder. The fact the the pockets are good for storing people things is just a bonus.

If it’s more realistic, as in, clothes for a 50+ foot behemoth are not, in fact, reditly available? Minimal since, in all honesty, I probably don’t care too much about keeping to normal standards. Cover the bits, maybe something around the ankles for someone to hold onto, and thats it.

For tinies… mandatory ‘nothing’ aside… a really elegant dress always hits the spot for me. Those quality ones that toe the line between showing a lot of skin and being classy, and which side it’s on depending on how it’s arranged. High heels are great, and also those really tall thigh high high heel boots that cling to the leg?

And, of course, something that shows some of that cute belly.

Meanwhile, in the more ‘unoffical’ style of clothing… collars are always a must. Great symbol of showing their place. There’s also something nice to paint, edible or otherwise… just. A painted on ‘bodysuit’, maybe, that looks real and somewhat respectable at first glance but really isn’t, or something more artistic that’s clearly designed to emphasis her lines. And, you know, chocolate. Or maybe a nice layer of syrup, for that ‘drenched in mud’ vibe, but instead of filthy she’s sweet…

Congratulations!

@blehb
Ultimatly, I’ve found that size is generally derived from some other fetish/kink: bondage, rape fantasy, pet play, and so on, all of these share similar origins, it’s just… magnified. Size makes things that are often more ‘consensual’ more of an absolute.

You want to be strong? Powerful? Be a giant, and destroy everything in your way.

You want to be a gentle guardian, or you want a well trained pet? Get a shrunken woman, and treat her to your tastes.

You want to helpless but loved, or to be put in your place? Get a kindly, or not so kindly, person to take care of the tiny you.

You want to feel helpless yet special, weak but still with a life? Be a giant’s That One Person, given unique treatment by the living natural disastor.

@Olo

I’m a big fan of multi-size, so combine that with the fact that all the ‘users’ are shrunken as well. Bonus humiliation points of if they’re all smaller than the ‘used’ SW, who is either tied up and helpless or obedient to the giant that she can’t stop/allows the people she should be able to easily dominate from doing whatever they want to her, that she’s less than even them.

@blehb

I’ve seen it as a part of bondage, specially ‘abandonment play’. The S ties up the M, and then ‘leaves’ them. They secretly stay nearby, keeping an eye on their helpless sub, while said sub sexily loses their mind for awhile. The M comes back, after care, probably some sex, boom.

I don’t think it’s a specific kink, per say, as much as it is a specific flavor (being ignored, to show how much less they are) as part of just wanting to be a sub in general.

Like so many things I propose, it’s something I often see in GTS stuff (ignoring the tinies/being utterly unaware or indifferent to them) that can be easily applied to GT situations.

@SmolChlo
And that’s why it’s abandonment play.

Another scenario is where it’s (at least to some degree) consensual. The SW (girlfriend, pet, whatever) is into that, and maybe the boyfriend (owner, whatever) is… maybe less into that, but also a bit absentminded?

And so they do the tank thing… and he goes about his day. And for him it’s normal, but her…

Boyfriend watches TV while not noticing tiny naked woman.
Boyfriend ordered food while not noticing his tiny naked girlfriend.
Boyfriend watches porn while not noticing his tiny naked girlfriend getting herself off !!!

And then you get into what that does to their relationship after the fact…

Best part? It’s a great, hands off, minimum work method of training, breaking a SW’s normal taboos and willingness to degrade herself: you want a behavior? ‘Notice’ them faster when they do it, and soon enough they’ll realize that things get better when they kneel when you enter the room. Save the treats for when you really like what they’re doing, and it’ll happen more and more.

And when they surrender enough, when whatever behaviors you desire happen on instinct? you can move them to more welcoming accommodations, and they’ll thank you for it. Getting them completely conditioned to fighting for every use of litter or meal scrap means that suddenly a hamster cage and three regular serving of whatever you’re eating looks positively cosy.

And, if you think they’re getting to uppity? Or just don’t want them to feel that settled? Say that you’re bored, and move the back to The Tank. Even when you move them back, they’ll be that much less secure in their own luxuries. Call out someone specifically while you do so and the group will destroy them to try and appease you.

There’s an idea I’ve been thinking with recently: abandonment play. Or maybe flat out abandonment.

A focus that’s not the giant trying to train the SW, but the SW trying to get the giant’s focus at all.

Main example I’m picturing is shrinking a group of cheerleaders and leaving them in a aquarium tank. Just the tank. No food. No water. No furniture. Nothing. Just them and a wide expanse of glass. The thing is, things can be added… if they can attract attention to be given those things. Moreover, everything that’s added disappears at the end of the day.

So, not even to stay comfortable but to survive, they need their captor’s attention, every single day. No matter how little they like it, even if he just plays with them at least they end up with food. Worst yet, the more they do something, the more used to it, and thus less interested, he gets, and the more they have to escalate…

@Olo
Alpha Beta Omega, where people have ‘second sexes’, alphas are basiclly memetic alpha males, omegas are subs that are claimed, and betas are the normal people who are probably keeping society running while everyone else loses their minds to magic sex hormones turning off their brains every five minutes.

It’s based off wildly inaccurate and outdated wolf pack dynamics and on Ao3 is largely an excuse to have a man who is strong and determined go through female style, often really rapey dynamics, while still trying to have them be the same character, somehow.

shrug

I’ve seen rare cases where it’s interesting, but in fanfiction… not so much.

The magic words you’re going to look for are things like ‘size fetish’, ‘size difference’, ‘macro/micro’, and shrinking and so on. Because like most things there’s an overwhelming GTS dominance, using the tags can help get you more specific results.

That said, I’m don’t look at Ao3 for my fetish needs; most of the stuff I find fetish-wise has a mass produced kind of quality to it (not just size stuff, but the ABO stuff I unfortunately run into while looking through authors and what not (fuck, now i"M thinking of ABO as a size story)), so… yeah. AO3 isn’t for sexy time for me (besides that one Among Us fic that just makes me interested despite myself), it’s fanfic central. I’ve found a small amount of size fics, but about half the of interesting ones (too sick to really get into sexual stuff right now, and that damn idea I’ve been wanting to write) are fanfics themselves, and honestly I can’t help but think that’s an unusually large proportion of original fics.

@foreverlurk
I mean, that was more a broad statement, from that point you have to get more specific; for example, how serious is the relationship? Because for obvious reasons you’re probably not going to tell your new girlfriend or whatever your long held secret fetish, for example? Then you get to questions like, has she told you of something like that, is your relationship strong in that kind of way, and so on and so forth.

(Are you even in a relationship? They way you’re phrasing it now makes it sound like you are.)

To be blunt? It’s not a one size fits all kind of situation, is the thing. I’m pretty sure if you checked, there’d be a lot of people on this forum who aren’t totally open about this kind of thing, and… that’s OK? Your relationship is your relationship, not anyone else’s, and it should go at whatever pace you and your partner are comfortable with, not whatever pace is ‘normal’. Normal is honestly kind of a toxic fucking lie, in my opinion, and it messes a lot of people up because it makes so many people go, ‘But I’m not doing it like everyone else!’ when everyone else does it their own personal way, as well.

Don’t try and force it, that’s not going to help. If you’re not ready, it’ll stress you out, mess you up, which would probably get noticed and responded to by your partner (if you don’t end up taking it out on them to some extent, since, you know, people are universally known to be more angry/withdrawn when stressed out, which is great for healthy communication! /s), plus, you may be right in that your relationship isn’t ready. Maybe it’s too early or something. How the fuck would I know if it’s ready or not? I’m not you, I don’t live your life, I’m in no position to tell you when and if that time is, you are.

@foreverlurk
Oh, I know it’s not just sexual, it’s the same for me, but it’s more… the implications of it, of how certain relationships have different expectations.

Like, I have family and friends, and I talk to them a lot, and tell them a lot of things I wouldn’t tell anyone else, but I don’t tell them my fetishes. There’s no… expectation for it, for lack of a better word, no need. I could tell them, I have a small group of friends who I would, if I had to tell someone in RL, we trust each other with things we wouldn’t really tell anyone else, but again, the lack of a significant other means there’s no reason to tell them, for, like, the sake of the relationship or something.

Meanwhile, even if you’re not having sex about it, having a significant other in some form is… intimate. in a healthy relationship, they’re the ones you trust with that kind of thing, and in a lot of cases should trust with them, because how you desire that kind of thing effects how you act and so on. The relationship itself has a sort of expectation, even if it’s unstated, that at some point you will talk about this kind of thing, to be open and honest.

And I think that’s what I’m getting at (while lacking the proper terminology), because I’m asexual/aromantic, there’s no need for me to tell others about this because of them, or for them, if I tell them it’s only because I want to.

Hmm. Coming from this as somewhat asexual end, I don’t have quite the same concerns, since I’m never going to have to, like, explain this to a partner, or all the layers of concern that come with having an unexplainable fetish and a desire to have a partner, but at the same time, it’s awkward having this thing I never ever want to explain, so there’s that.

As someone getting therapy, I’ve got to say just… talking in a judgement free zone like that really helps. I’ve never mentioned this there, but then again, like I said this isn’t a big load for me, compared ot all the other shit happening to me.

Side note: make sure you’re comfortable with your therapist first, though, before you do anything big. I’ve never had any problems, but my sister? First meeting with one, she walks in and the woman starts going on about her weight… which is not only fucked up, is really weird because she’s not fat or anything? It’s like she wanted to pull weight issues out of the ether.

So, yeah. Making sure you have a good bond with them, and trust them not to pull bullshit on you, is important.

@foreverlurk said in What celebrities would you want to see more of in sizekink content?:

. They really do require quasi-religious maintenance, hehe.

…God damn it, stop giving me size story ideas.

So, I’m so out of the loop I know, like, maybe a dozen celebrities? As in, I recognize their names if I were to hear it on the radio going to work? And in all honesty, half of those I could have a conversation with in RL, and as long as they approached it right I could walk away thinking they were an old coworker or someone I went to a class in college with that I forgot or something, but thankfully I managed not to let them know I didn’t remember them.

Beyond that lack of interest though… using celebs like that always kind of gives me the creeps; I’ve never really understood fame, much less the desire to go all, ‘RLF’ or whatever that acronym is. It’s one thing if it’s a random stock picture, but the pictures where the captions make it clear that, ‘this specific celeb, a real person’ was being used is just… makes me wince.

That said, I like fanfiction, though I guess it depends on how it’s being done: written fanfiction, I have standards. I like fanfics as an exploration of the setting, or what ifs, and so on, as much because I like the characters as my mind craving constant stimulation so it doesn’t go mad. I’m not opposed to that as a size thing, but the less sense it makes the less interested I get. As pictures, though? Or short videos, I guess? A size-y smut pic really doesn’t have to make sense for the character, I think, so much as be an attractive person you (-'re supposed to know), who is generally unrealistically attractive, doing something. Different rules, and all that.