@Olo I went through a similar thing when you said, “ As someone who viewed all heterosexual relationships as adversarial (that were usually dominated by men and their desires), the notion that I wasn’t already sufficiently advantaged and that I had to shrink women and stuff them in my mouth in order to find satisfaction was unbearable.” I felt ashamed about being a women with macrophilia because society usually sees women as being less dominant. Although I am not either dominant or submissive despite being tiny in the size community, I did felt ashamed with being a submissive. It didn’t help that when I was researching about my fetish, I couldn’t find any articles or videos on women with macrophilia. All of them explained men having the fetish. A lot of them explained that women don’t have the fetish as much as men because of society seeing women as less dominant and men as big and powerful. And so I thank you for sharing about your experiences. It is so refreshing to see I am not the only person who went through this struggle and that I am not alone. I am not very good at writing and I suppose it might be partially because of my mental disability, so I apologize if this post sounds a bit disorganized.
