I don’t want to be a Thread Necromancer
but everytime I think of a subject, there’s already one for it, lol. But I still wanted to chime in because I think in my case, reality and fantasy may intersect a bit, maybe not in the way that you think.
If I’m being honest, I think growing up as a teen the idea of shrinking girls also conflated with making them more accessible, as a way to cope with shyness and social anxiety. Thus, unconsciously, imagining them a few inches tall made it easier to initiate social interactions. Shorter girls were simply less intimidating to me, but also lowkey triggered some basic aspects of my kink. Like, the will to protect them, their overall cuteness…
there were definitely some lines blurred between my imagination and reality.
At the end of the day, it’s just a preference (like, I dunno, redheads…
), and of course I don’t base my entire relationships around that factor alone, but the fact is: none of my partners have ever been taller than 5’2". My ex is 4’10", now me being only 5’8" it’s not such a crazy height difference. That being said I never got the hate against short girls who want to date 6’+ men. Gatekeeping size difference, WTF… always felt like comments from incels or frustrated short “kings”.
@Olo said in Is height correlated to size feteshes:
Travel can add different perspectives.
I spent a year in Russia in the early 00s, and boy did I feel like munchkin over there. Not only the guys are tall, but the women too!