Asexual Thoughts
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@i-am-insane Same! That’s crazy, I feel like you spoke my mind on every point. It definitely can get weird and confusing to make sense of all the sub-fantasies within this one, but at a certain point, I think it’s best to just let yourself enjoy whatever comes naturally. And despite the occasional wandering thought, at the end of the day, I really just want a gentle giant to cuddle into and be sweet with. I can at least appreciate the symbolism of size difference sex though- the power imbalance, the vulnerability, the inevitability of what’s coming. The shock factor alone is pretty intriguing to explore, even if it’s not really my interest.
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@Calypsa
Honestly, a lot of what I’m interested in is usually a subversion of the classic SW tropes: she shrinks, but she’s into it before the man is, or actively did it to herself. I’m growing, but she’s doing to me, or is the one who is excited about it.I like… the push pull, where both sides have some levers on the other, even if it’s just on emotional manipulation or something, making both ends of the equation active, if unequal, actors. If it’s just the basic ‘bigger person grabs smaller one, sex’, it’s… bland, almost? The situation, the relationship, that dynamic, flavors it.
In the same way, I’m interested in levels of dehumanization, but it can go too far, because it’s the fact that they are people that make it so interesting. If you reduce the woman to just an object, so much of what makes everything special is gone; it’s like you’ve replaced a gem with a Christmas light.
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@i-am-insane I agree, the idea that it’s two people of equal dignity rubbing up against each other in this fundamentally unfair way is what heightens all the emotions for me: the sense of wonder, the degradation, etc. Learning how to navigate that new sort of dynamic presents so many opportunities to explore growing closer to the other than would normally be possible.
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@miss-lillipants Emotional or psychological intimacy definitely takes priority for me too. It’s fascinating how something non-sexual can still give you such a rush.
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@Calypsa I feel the exact same way as you do. I am asexual and never liked size media with sexual undertones a lot even though I can tolerate them. I have always been into non sexual size media.
But I honestly don’t just like gentle, I like it when the giant teases the tiny. I also like a yandere giants and giants that are dominant or evil in a fun cartoony way(like the evil dr from Phineas and Ferb) that is not sexual too.
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@i-am-insane said in Asexual Thoughts:
Ah, another for the ‘Ace but weirdly and deeply into a really kinky fetish you probably can’t ever explain to anyone normal camp’. Welcome!
I am very proud to be a member of the camp. We are a very humble community.
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I just responded to another post of yours about personality, but I thought I’d drop an additional note here.
There’s a ton of G/t M/f stuff on DeviantArt obviously done by younger women who don’t seem to intersect much with the properly naughty size scene.
Personally I think that’s great. It doesn’t all have to be genitalia flying all over the room. What matters is whether the play is fun and rewarding.
Even in straight up size smut there are scenes where characters have breakfast or go shopping or even fantastic things like repair spaceships together as a G/t team.
If that’s the part of the story that matters to you, then enjoy.
Makes me wonder if I should try my hand at some PG stuff just to see who might still find that emotionally satisfying even if they don’t… well… you know.
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When I went to sizecon, there were a sizeable amount of asexual identifying people. I’m also somewhere on that spectrum. As a man, I do find a lot of sexual and romantic feelings around tiny women and the shrinking process. I never enjoyed genitals sexually. My fantasies always involve women “shrinking with her clothes” and I enjoy things in that fluffy way and never go further. My stories usually end on a “cliffhanger” because for me it’s enough that the woman is small. At that point it’s about building a relationship with her, not torturing her - I really like making the woman feel like “she’s at home” when she’s tiny - trying to let her live as normal a life as possible while being that size.
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